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Are we ready for on-site learning?

I want my kids back in school and to have a normal school life, but I appreciate the government’s decision to delay on-site learning. On Wednesday, March 25, we received a security alert at 3:22 PM. If it had been a regular school day, we would still be on our way home. 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘵𝘰𝘤𝘰𝘭 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘳 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘢 𝘴𝘢𝘧𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘬. 𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘯, 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 (𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐) 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘮 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨? 𝘈𝘮𝘣𝘰𝘵. Thursday, March 26 – security alert at 8:11 AM. My kids are in school, either inside the classroom or on the field for PE. 𝘚𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘭 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘪𝘤𝘬 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘶𝘱? 𝘖𝘳 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘶𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘩𝘰𝘮𝘦? 𝘚𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮? 𝘉𝘜𝘛 𝘮𝘰𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘱𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘥 𝘥𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘭 𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴? 𝘚𝘰, 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘭? 𝘈𝘮𝘣𝘰𝘵. My kids: 100% READY TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL. Dubai is safe. I still believe that. Despite the uncertainty, life goes on. Padayon.

Day 19: Random Thoughts

March 18, 2026 2am security alert. Sayo kaayo! Should I wake the kids up or let them continue sleeping? Stood up, listened, checked official outlets, and prayed really hard.I went back to sleep after getting the all-clear message. When family and friends outside the UAE ask how we are doing, my reply now is “We are physically safe. Mentally, I don’t know – it differs if we hear the boom or not, if we are all together, if we are inside a building, driving, or outdoors.” The worry is different because as a parent, our kids depend on us. Their lives are the ones greatly affected by all these – school life is disrupted, will they be able to sit their boards, will they have a chance to have a graduation ceremony? Despite… life goes on as normal and is possible because of the men and women working around the clock to keep us all safe. This has been our “normal” for weeks now and this is NOT OKAY. Nag cge na mi ug hanggad …

The worry lingers

March 12, 2026 Today was different and tough because, for the first time, the sound felt closer. One child woke up scared because of it. We held them tighter; that was all we could do. This has been our reality for the past week. I can’t imagine the trauma of those families living in the war zone for years, YEARS! We are together at home. Right now, that’s all that matters. We feel safe, but the worry still lingers in the background as we do our best to go about a normal day. Are we leaving? For now, we are staying. We continue to have 100% faith in the UAE, our leaders, and its frontliners to protect us all.

The UAE is our home

March 3, 2026Day 3 of the US-Israel war on Iran I stare out my kitchen window as I prepare a meal for our family. Only a handful of motorists are on the road, so quiet compared to last week. I can hear the call to prayer so clearly that it has given my heart comfort. We have enough food to last us a few weeks. Nearby restaurants and grocery stores are open. Delivery riders are bravely working hard to deliver our needs. How lucky are we to have all this available to us despite. I have replied to family overseas, reassuring them that we are safe. The UAE is our home; it has been for 18 years. Our kids know the streets of Dubai better than the ones C and I grew up exploring. We are grateful and trust the leaders of the UAE to keep all of us

Ramadan after 10 years

This is our 11th Ramadan as an expat family in Dubai. Each year we have  learned and appreciated how it can be special for us too. Looking back, our first Ramadan here was very different. A lot of things freaked me out – no place to buy food; we might get deported if we eat; we can’t go out during the day. Crazy! Below are some questions we often get asked. This has also been some of my worries when we first moved here. What is Ramadan? Ramadan is considered the holiest time in the Islamic Calendar. It is a time for prayer, reflection, and religious devotion to cleanse past sins and do good deeds. For 30 days, Muslims wake up before dawn to consume their first meal, called Suhoor; they then refrain from consuming water & food during the day; breaking of fast happens at sunset which is called Iftar. Here is a link to a short video produced by Tani of Our Big Dubai Adventure & Zeyna of Mummy on my Mind, explaining …

Embracing the woman I am today

“The most rewarding things you do in life are often the ones that look like they cannot be done.” – Arnold Jean Palmer I stepped in the building of my first corporate job at  the age of 19 yrs, surrounded with career woman looking gorgeous and powerful in suits. I wanted to be just like them. Why? Because I saw how lost my Mama was when she became a widow with three kids and living with her in laws. Growing up, my mom did not have much authority on us because she had to rely on relatives help to financially get by. She worked so hard to finally be on her own and even manage to buy us our own house with her salary as a government employee. I want to be the woman who does not rely on anyone to pay her meals, travel or go out and have fun night on her own.  When friends and I discuss family life, I stand strong to my ideal life of still having a career of my own and not depend …

Philippine Passport Renewal in Dubai for Kids

LittleMiss C’s passport expires this year and what I thought was a daunting task only took us 12 minutes! I could not believe that we were done with the whole process that fast, sharing with you some tips for a smooth and fast process. 5 tips for a FAST Passport Renewal process for kids 1)      Prepare DOCUCMENTS and bring EXTRA COPY. You can save and fill out the E-Passport Application Form on your computer. I strongly suggest you type the information needed from your computer to avoid misspelled names and be sure to recheck once printed. Form and documents needed for passport renewal are listed in the Dubai Philipine Consulate General (PCG) website. 2)      Talk to your child about the whole process and why they need to have this done. Practice how they should smile without teeth showing. You will be asked to remove jewelry and have your daughters hair tucked behind ears so keep hair tidy. I told LittleMiss that a person will take her photo so she can ride the airplane again. 3)      Start early. …

Jebel Jais Mountain sunrise

Sunrise at Jebel Jais Mountain

We recently had a week long holiday here in Dubai to celebrate Arafat Day and Eid Al Adha. That was one week of no school for the kids and 5 days off for Daddy C. Our plan was to stay home and setup Christmas decorations. Carla of MyYellowbells invited us to join her family for a road trip to Jebel Jais Mountain. So we did. Four cars convoyed to the emirate of Ras Al Khaimah where UAE’s highest mountain is located. Jebel Jais Mountain stand tall at approximately 1900m above sea level and promises a scenic and rustic view of sunrise. We left Al Qusais at 3:30 am and arrived at 5:40 am, just before sunrise. No lights on the zigzag road going up so make sure your headlights are working fine and drive slowly. We stopped at the last camp site only to find out from other campers that the trail going up to the highest peak is close due to road construction. There was no available signs (as far as we know) on where …